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How do I get a nerdy girlfriend?

Have you thought of having a nerdy girlfriend? If you are, then welcome to the club! There are a lot of guys who are into quirky, video game addicts, and book-loving nerds.

But where do we find these smart ladies? Well, universities or even at work sure works, but it’s not likely to attract them that easily. And even if you do find one, how would you get them to be interested in you?

Here are some pointers that you should consider. 

Benefits of dating a nerdy girl

For starters, geeky or nerdy girls are people who enjoy taking up some academic profession, have a limited set of interests, stay up late, do something that is specifically detailed and little understood. They just enjoy doing stuff that needs full focus and concentration, but sports are never a part of it.

A nerdy girl is wise, she’s going to focus on better issues than makeup and fake nails. She is wide-minded, she wants to know more about it all, and she’s a good questioner.

Nerdy girls are quite often introverts; they like to stay at home, which means they are less likely to party and cheat. You won’t worry about the whereabouts of her because you are sure she’s at home. A nerdy girlfriend would be a perfect wife, too!

It will never be a dull moment with a nerdy girlfriend. She will also be full of great ideas that are ready to share with you. You would be proud to introduce this girl to your friends, because…come on, who doesn’t love Fortnite? She does! You could initiate a LAN party with your friends together! Friends and your girl at the same time would be so balancing! 

She is also your friend where you can share unimaginable things a usual girl wouldn’t understand. She is not just your sex-partner. Most men distinguish their GFs from friends, but with her, you will have someone to talk about, not just feelings or sex positions.

Where to find nerdy girls?

If you’re having trouble finding nerdy girls, you’re not looking in the right places, so the prepared list of dating sites for nerds helps in it. But where else do nerdy girls exist? Only in dedicated group chats, forums, Pinterest, or just watching animes or Asian dramas on certain websites. Don’t just go straight to a public library or cafes; nobody does that these days. Using such online services and researching first is one of your first steps if you are an on-the-go person. You could use these services on your phone, so if you just thought of dating a nerdy girl out of nowhere, just visit some of the dedicated platforms and start your quest. 

You can also find answers on Quora, as this platform has some useful tips and opinions from different people who have dated and are married to geeks as well. If you’re searching for some short and quick answers, you might wanna check it out.

Tips to impress a nerdy girlfriend

You should not forget the important pointers when impressing a nerdy girl. 

Begin with doing some research about her fandom right away. Mostly all of the nerdy girls out there are into some communities where they share some opinions. So if K-pop or some emo band is unfamiliar to you, try to dig some information about them so if she opens up about it, at least you have something to say. You don’t want to offend her, so don’t insult her fandom; nobody likes that. 

Compliment her, tell her she looks good with that type of glasses if she wears ones. Most nerdy girls want to be complimented but are just shy. Don’t tell her she’s boring – everyone wants to be interesting and considered as a free and resilient person who doesn’t copy anyone. Even if sometimes she seems awkward or too hung up on something, don’t let her feel that way.

Flirt vaguely. Nerdy girls hate pressure and guys who are too tactful. Don’t be shy, either, so you won’t create unnecessary tension between the two of you. Be flexible; try to find some unique ways to capture her heart. Since nerds are very wary, there’s not much hope that she’d give her soul to a stranger!  

Nerdy girls are thought to be weird, loner, and have unusual interests. They can be slightly different from other girls, but they also have feelings and are just waiting for a guy to approach them! Don’t hesitate, who knows? A nerdy girlfriend might be the most suitable future partner for you.